This happened back when I was guild leader of Warriors of Wrath about 2 years ago or so. Shosh and Rilian/Deridian were both in WoW at that time and Sunshu (Shosh's RL hubby) was in a guild whose name eludes me ATM (monk only guild?). Rilian and Shosh both talked to me separately about the details of their involvement with each other. Not sure who started it, but they were "electronically involved".

Shosh actually forwarded on several e-mails that were between her and Rilian to me so I could review and offer advice to her. Think I still have em filed somewhere. I told Shosh and Rilian both that they needed to keep the game a game and to put their RL relationships with their significant others as a priority over EQ. I am terribly sorry that Shosh and Sunshu ended up being divorced, for whatever the reasons.
Now for Croinc...
Your point is taken about Shosh not being an angel, but your profane blasting and telling her to shove it is over the line. As far as I see it, Shosh, Rilian, and Sunshu have already paid a BIG price. No need to make them pay further, is there?
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